What is a toi et moi ring?

A toi et moi ring is a two-stone jewel where two distinct gems sit side by side in a twist or crossover band. The design translates from French as you and me. Historically presented as engagement tokens, these rings use complementary stones like diamond and sapphire to represent a union of two people.

How do I date an antique ring?

Dating relies on the cutting style of the stones, the choice of metals, and the manufacturing techniques visible in the mount. Edwardian pieces often feature platinum-topped gold with old cut diamonds. Art Deco examples lean towards geometric platinum settings and calibrated stones. Hallmarks and stylistic markers help narrow the decade of production.

Can I wear an antique ring daily?

These antique rings were built for daily wear, particularly those set in sturdy 18ct gold or platinum. Regular checks on the claws help secure the gems. Gentle cleaning with warm soapy water keeps the stones bright without harming the antique metal settings.

What stones are used in these rings?

Diamonds are the most frequent primary stone, often paired with blue sapphires, rubies, emeralds, natural pearls, or zircons. Coloured gemstones add contrast to the dual-stone arrangement. Combinations range from diamond duos to sapphire and diamond pairings set within gold and platinum.