What is a Toi et Moi ring?

A Toi et Moi ring is a specific style featuring two principal gemstones that sit close together in a twisted or crossover band. The design translates from French as you and me. Historically chosen for engagement rings, this layout symbolises two distinct individuals joining together. The stones can be matching diamonds or a combination of a diamond and a coloured gem such as a sapphire or ruby.

How do I care for a vintage crossover ring?

Caring for a vintage ring involves gentle cleaning with warm soapy water and a soft brush, avoiding harsh ultrasonic cleaners that can loosen older stones. Regular checks by a jeweller ensure the claws holding the diamonds or sapphires remain secure. Storing the ring in a separate compartment prevents the platinum or gold shanks and older stones from scratching against other jewellery pieces.

Are these rings suitable for daily wear?

Most antique and vintage crossover rings in eighteen-carat gold or platinum are robust enough for everyday wear when handled with reasonable care. Settings featuring softer stones like pearls require extra mindfulness regarding knocks and water exposure. Evaluating the thickness of the original band helps determine if the ring requires strengthening by a specialist before resuming daily service.

How do I identify an Edwardian crossover ring?

Edwardian crossover rings typically display delicate platinum-topped gold work, openwork filigree and old cut diamonds often paired with pearls or natural sapphires. The metalwork is characterised by lightness and fine millegrain detailing. These pieces reflect the graceful, garland-style aesthetics prevalent from the turn of the twentieth century up to nineteen-ten.