What does toi et moi mean?

The phrase translates from French as you and me, denoting a ring style featuring two distinct stones. This pairing traditionally symbolises two people joined together, making it a favoured choice for historic engagement rings.

How do I date these rings?

Dating relies on stylistic clues such as the geometry of Art Deco work or the delicate openwork of the Edwardian era. Metal combinations, such as platinum set over yellow gold, also help place a piece within its historical decade.

Are these rings suitable for daily wear?

Most historic examples are robust enough for regular wear provided the settings and claws are checked periodically. Care should be taken with softer organic gems like natural pearls or opals, which require gentle handling compared to diamonds.

Why is platinum common in these pieces?

Platinum offered the necessary strength to create fine, secure settings without adding heavy metal weight. Its naturally white colour also complemented the brilliance of old cut diamonds without requiring rhodium plating.